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Listed below is an ongoing collection of videos and podcasts that are frequently recommended. Click on your interested video to watch

Drama Triangle Explained

Learn the about the roles that keep you stuck in the drama triangle and have you repeating issues in your life. Also learn about the rolls that support you in living in presence where you can permanently solve your life's challenges.

In this talk, relationship expert Stan Tatkin explores why we fight from the perspective of neuroscience - and how to give your relationship a fighting chance.

Helen Fisher presents study findings on why people fall in love with one person and not another.

http://www.ted.com Brené Brown studies human connection -- our ability to empathize, belong, love. In a poignant, funny talk at TEDxHouston, she shares a deep insight from her research, one that sent her on a personal quest to know herself as well as to understand humanity. A talk to share.
Here's a talk that could literally change your life. Which career should I pursue? Should I break up -- or get married?! Where should I live? Big decisions like these can be agonizingly difficult. But that's because we think about them the wrong way, says philosopher Ruth Chang.
http://www.ted.com Shame is an unspoken epidemic, the secret behind many forms of broken behavior. Brené Brown, whose earlier talk on vulnerability became a viral hit, explores what can happen when people confront their shame head-on. Her own humor, humanity and vulnerability shine through every word.

This is an extract taken from Helen Fisher's "This is Your Brain on Love" It focuses on her talking about the four personality types and explaining what they are.

People seem to fit into Four Tendencies: Upholders, Questioners, Obligers, and Rebels.

A conversation with the director of the Marriage and Family Health Center and the author of "Intimacy and Desire."